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RYCROFT, Sally Joann (nee Fraser)

SALLY JOANN RYCROFT (née Fraser)
April 19th, 1948 – June 9th, 2020

It is with great sorrow that we announce the passing of our beloved Sally. She leaves Glen, her loving husband and partner of 45 years, daughter Lori Klear (Darsh), grandchildren Hayley and Tej, former neighbour and special friend Zoe, sister Nora Scherger, brother Bill Fraser, many dear friends, and much loved dog Magee.

Sally was born in Winnipeg. Her father worked as a station master for the railways and the family lived in a succession of small prairie towns. However, Sally considered Sylvan Lake, Alberta, where she graduated from high school, to be her hometown. She was very popular at school, it must have been that impish smile, energy, enthusiasm, sense of fun and willingness to get involved. She was also good at numbers.

In 1967, Sally moved to Calgary where she got a job with an accounting firm. This was the beginning of a long career path. Sally worked hard to gain her CGA, RFP, CFP, PRP designations. From 1979 to 1981 she worked for Keenleyside Bardal Accounting. In 1982 she moved to Patterson and Associates, and in 1989 she started her own financial planning company, S J Rycroft and Associates Inc.

Quietly unassuming, yet with a steely determination Sally was a pioneer; she forged a career in an area in which, at that time, few women held senior positions. Her contribution to her field and inspiration to colleagues was acknowledged in 2013 when she was awarded the FP Canada Fellow distinction in recognition of her significant contribution to the advancement of professional financial planning in Canada.

Sally was a long-time volunteer with FP Canada. She was part of the review process for the first iteration of the examination syllabus at FP Canada’s inception in the mid-1990s. From 1998 to 2007 she was a member of the Panel of Examiners, CFP professionals responsible for vetting the CFP examination, and served as Chair from 2004 to 2006. She was a member of the Academic Advisory and Certification Scheme Committees providing insight into the development of the CFP Professional Competency Profile, a principal document in the development of the financial planning profession in Canada. Sally was elected to FP Canada’s Board of Directors from 2007 to 2012. Her colleagues remember Sally as someone who always brought a great sense of humour, positive outlook and, most importantly, a reminder to all that accomplishing great things and having great fun are not mutually exclusive.

Sally was also successful in her own business and held in high regard by her clients. This was due in part to her knowledge and financial acumen but also because she always maintained that to understand a client’s financial situation and needs one first had to understand the person. It is no surprise that many of her clients became good friends.

Always an independent spirit Sally loved to travel. 1969 saw Sally and three friends travelling to Europe. Six weeks away wasn’t enough for Sally. She stayed on and worked in Berchtesgaden, Germany, and took the opportunity to explore more of Europe. Her love of travel continued. Sally and Glen enjoyed a trip to Maui every year, often with friends, and Sally went with friends to Ireland, to Mexico and one of her best adventures, a safari in Kenya.

In the 70s Sally moved to Vancouver and found a job based in the Standard Building. It was in 1975, in the stairwell of this building, that Sally first met Glen. A few weeks after their first date they moved in together, they could see no point in wasting time! In December 1980 they were married.

Glen and Sally moved from North Vancouver to Maracaibo on Salt Spring Island in 1998, where they built their home. Sally continued to put her financial experience and knowledge to good use serving as Secretary Treasurer on the Maracaibo Board and Strata Council and chairing the Investment Committee for eight years from 2000 to 2008. She also served on the Land and Stewardship Committee for many years.

Always an avid reader it was appropriate that Sally should serve as a long term volunteer at the Salt Spring library. Sally served on the Library Board from 2011 to 2017, initially as Vice Chair and then as Treasurer, and on the Finance Committee from 2011 to 2020. On the Board Sally played a key role in the development of the new library in the critical few years following its opening. She was also instrumental in securing a budget for the acquisition of local art to be showcased in the space. After stepping down from the Board Sally continued to be a popular library volunteer. Friends would often time a visit to the library to coincide with her shifts on Monday mornings.

Sally loved animals, birds and nature. She loved to walk. She could be found every day, in every weather, walking her dog on the trails. She was delighted when she discovered the first fawn lilies of spring or spotted some newly fledged owls. She had a gentle heart. She would bury a baby bird found dead in the forest, or move a snail from the middle of the road to prevent it from being squashed. On her Kenyan safari she found the hunt at the waterhole impossible to watch; she preferred the majestic giraffes.

Sally’s passing, all too soon, will leave a big hole in all our lives. She was a force of nature, kind and generous, a loving wife, a proud Mom and Grandma Sally, she was the very best of friends.

We will miss you Sally, we raise a glass to you and remember your huge smile and your wicked mischievous sense of humour; you could always make us laugh.

In lieu of flowers please consider a donation in Sally’s name to the BCSPCA.

There will be a small family gathering to honour Sally’s life.

A Celebration of Life for friends will be announced at a later date.

Island adds to anti-racism calls

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Islanders turned out for a peaceful rally on Wednesday afternoon to protest the recent deaths of men and women with dark skin in the United States and Canada and to demonstrate that those lives do matter.
The quiet demonstration at the edge of Centennial Park was organized by 15-year-old Sophie Coopman, who splits her time between Sidney and Salt Spring. Coopman sent an email out to people she knew the day before and her dad’s fiancée Michelle Grant also posted a call online. Around 100 islanders and friends came out to support the cause.
“I don’t know most of these people, which is amazing,” Coopman said during the event. “And I’m very happy to see that people actually care.”
The teenager said she was motivated to act after hearing about George Floyd’s death on the radio, an experience that caused her to break down for several hours. The 46-year-old Black man died in Minneapolis, Minn. on May 25 after a police officer knelt on his neck for nearly nine minutes while three other officers stood by.
For Coopman, it was a shocking reminder of pervasive racial injustice.
“I’ve read about this in books and I’ve heard my grandmother and my mother tell stories about this and terrible things happening to them because their skin is dark,” she said. “I thought, ‘I can’t understand why this is happening and I can’t understand why people aren’t reacting.’ So hopefully by doing this, we can make some sort of change, make people understand and make people see this is actually happening, it isn’t a thing of the past.”
People who joined the demonstration were similarly motivated to show up and take a stand against acts of violence and discrimination even if they hadn’t been personally affected.
“I’m from Jamaica. I’m from a different, more sheltered place,” said Paul Goodlet, who heard about the demonstration from Sophie’s father Steve Coopman. “I haven’t ever experienced injustice like I’ve seen people experience in America; I have relatives in the United States and it does affect them a lot.”

Paul Goodlet, who is originally from Jamaica.

“I’ve been in such a loving place in Canada. You don’t really see it much, but I think it’s up to us to show compassion and support . . . I think it’s up to me to show what a good life we can have when everyone just lives together,” Goodlet added.
Sharon Williamson said she came out for the event because she thinks what’s happened to black people and Canada’s First Nations is terrible.
“And it’s time that people stood up and made themselves heard,” Williamson said.

Sharon Williamson was a participant in the June 3 rally.

Protests against racism and police brutality aligned with the Black Lives Matter movement and other solidarity rallies have been taking place across the United States and Canada since an initial protest was held in Minneapolis the day after Floyd was killed. Demonstrations continued through the weekend.
All four officers were fired from the Minneapolis police force. Derek Chauvin was charged on May 26 with manslaughter, which was upgraded to a second-degree murder charge on June 3. The three other officers involved were also charged that day with aiding and abetting the act.

ASK Salt Spring moves to the meadow

BY GAYLE BAKER
DRIFTWOOD CONTRIBUTOR

Tired of Zooming about? Beginning this Friday, June 12, ASK Salt Spring will be welcoming islanders to socially distanced gatherings in the United Church Meadow every Friday from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. during the summer.
This week, our Capital Regional District director Gary Holman will be our special guest, welcoming all to ask questions and participate in lively conversations about the issues that matter most to us. As the CRD has recently taken over management of the meadow, committed to making this charming park a village centre again, his presence at our first gathering there is a meaningful coincidence.
Chairs will be provided; bring your favourite beverage and sweaters and/or sun hats. Events will be postponed if it is raining.
No time to sit in the meadow? Send your questions to asksaltspring@gmail.com.

For more on this story, see the June 10, 2020 issue of the Gulf Islands Driftwood newspaper, or subscribe online.

Deaths prove more anti-violence work needed

By JANINE FERNANDES-HAYDEN
We, the staff and board of SWOVA, are deeply affected by the tragedy surrounding the Quesnel family. Our condolences go out to the three boys, the families and their friends.
“No Man is an Island,” writes John Donne, though it can feel this way, especially during our COVID times when we are unable to connect and experience the type of kinship that we are meant to; to share, ponder, rejoice together, to grieve together in deeply meaningful ways. We at SWOVA espouse healthy relationships, and yet, what does this mean for us in these times of social distancing, let alone as our community processes this horrible incident?
SWOVA works within the educational setting, with children and youth, to prevent violence in all forms. Our vision statement reads, “We envision inclusive and gender-equitable communities living violence-free.” It is hard for us as an organization not to feel deflated when we think of this tragedy. And yet, we must remember that a vision is where we hope to arrive and, when we have arrived, there will in fact be no need for the work of organizations such as Islanders Working Against Violence or Salt Spring Women Opposed to Violence and Abuse. Until then, there is work to be done. We are not there.
We live on an island that is special in many ways, but it is not idyllic. An idyllic island would be one that has reached that vision of a community living violence-free. In our work together, we need to face the realities of a community that is not idyllic, where domestic violence, as well as other forms of violence, including self-inflicted, are very real. And all forms are complicated by risk factors associated with addictions, mental illness and poverty.
To feel shock over the news of the past week is a hopeful sign and a step forward towards awakening to the realities facing our island. To feel numb means that there is a pain that needs to be dulled, one left by an underlying wound that we all share, one that needs to be aired out and nursed. Let’s not ignore nor dismiss those feelings.
The deaths of John and Jennifer Quesnel weaken us all. To come full circle in the words of Donne, “Any man’s death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind; and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.”
Let the bells that toll for all of us at this time not paralyze us with guilt and shame. Instead, let them call us to a humility, honesty and vulnerability that has us assess the health of our relationships, with ourselves and with others, and to consider the messages that we pass on to our younger generations.
Let us ask ourselves the question, “How are we doing, really?” At a time when we are impacted by acts of violence on a world stage, let us acknowledge the work that needs to be done in our own backyard.

RESOURCES
• At SWOVA, we’ll continue moving towards our vision of communities living violence-free by offering programs for children and youth to give them the skills to create healthy relationships now and in the future. We do partner with other community organizations who are involved in directly addressing violence and crisis in our community. If you or someone who know needs help:
• IWAV provides anti-violence services: crisis line, outreach, counselling and Transition House, and supports and responds to women and families in our community.
• IWAV encourages women who are feeling unsafe and needing support to contact IWAV’s 24 hr crisis line at 250-537-0735 or email at ssitransitionhouse@iwav.org. Additional information about IWAV’s services can be found at iwav.org.
• Youth and families can also seek support from Salt Spring Community Services. Counsellors are ready and available to meet with children, youth and families who would like support. They can access this by phoning Community Services’ Navigator at 778-353-4731. More information about counselling support is also available on the SSCS website: saltspringcommunityservices.ca.
• School counsellors are, as usual, available for students in need of emotional support.
• There are also many helpful resources through phone, chat, or text, for youth struggling emotionally, including:
• Kids Help Line, available 24-7, for students struggling with anything. 1-800-667-6868.
• Vancouver Island Crisis Line (24-7) 1-888-494-3888 for youth needing support.

The writer is executive director of the SWOVA Community Development and Research Society.

Editorial: Preventing tragedy

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Pain. Outrage. Sorrow. Shock.
Those are just some of the emotions that overwhelmed our community last week upon learning that lifelong island resident John Quesnel had murdered his wife Jennifer and then shot himself.
It is too easy to say that if Jennifer Quesnel had requested a police escort to their Fulford-Ganges Road property on June 1 she would still be alive. Instead, that action could possibly have resulted in more deaths occurring that day. The path leading to John Quesnel’s murder of his wife and his own suicide began long before June 1, 2020.
Prevention of tragedies such as this one begins with halting inter-generational cycles of violence, and making violence and abuse of any kind — whether against intimate partners, children, elders or anyone at all — absolutely unacceptable in our communities and in our homes.
It is difficult to force or enforce respectful, non-violent relationships, however. Positive outcomes may sometimes occur through the judicial system, certainly, but by the time a crisis reaches that point much damage will have been done. Mass anti-racism protests like those seen in recent weeks in response to the murder of George Floyd can precipitate public shifts in attitudes and behaviour as well.
But preventing violence and the imbalance of power that fuels it in intimate relationships truly requires the fostering of deep awareness and hard work. That comes through individuals honestly assessing the health of their own relationships and seeking to improve them if necessary. It requires consistent access to education programs such as those presented by Salt Spring’s own Salt Spring Women Opposed to Violence and Abuse and Islanders Working Against Violence organizations. It demands wholehearted financial and philosophical support being directed to those kinds of programs and to mental health services for youth and adults. It requires families and communities to be on board with prevention of violence and abuse and for them to not make anyone feel ashamed for seeking help.
The deaths of John and Jennifer Quesnel must be a wake-up call for us all. We all have a role to play in preventing another tragedy like this one from unfolding on Salt Spring Island.
Our community is shaken and our deepest sympathies and sincere condolences go out to the Quesnel children, their families and their friends.

Canada Day fireworks show cancelled

Salt Spring’s traditional Canada Day fireworks show will not take place this year.
As explained in a statement released today, the organizing partners said they do not see how it would be possible to follow the physical distancing guidelines set out by the provincial government while holding the event.
“This was not an easy decision to make, as it will be the first time in over 25 years that the community has not held a fireworks demonstration on Canada Day, but it is the right decision for our community and our organizations at this time. Thank you for your understanding.”
Organizing group members are Thrifty Foods, Salt Spring Island Fire Rescue, the Salt Spring Island Chamber of Commerce, Harbour Authority of Salt Spring Island, TJ Beans, West of the Moon and the Tree House Cafe.
The Canada Day Show ‘n’ Shine will also not take place, being replaced by a virtual car show, music and other events on the saltspringcruisers.com website. Local Salt Spring Cruisers members will also take a cruise around the island that day.

Viewpoint: Out of sight, out of mind

By BARB GALLOWAY

Just because you can’t see the 33 freighters parked around the Gulf Islands from your homes, as described in last week’s “Australia Provides Ship Lessons” article and the Driftwood’s editorial, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be extremely concerned.

If you go to the beach to kayak, boat, fish or crab, or if you have young children, you should be fighting to get rid of these ships. They are polluting our environment and interfering with our orcas. I have a perfect view of the two anchorages in the entrance to Ganges Harbour and Captain’s Passage.

On May 14 at 6 a.m. I watched the MV Theseus come through Swanson Channel and Captain’s Passage looking like it was burning 1,000 litres of oil a second. The streak of thick, white-blue-grey smoke lingered for two kilometres before the vessel parked in the entrance to Ganges Harbour and stayed there until May 27. I phoned the Port of Vancouver to complain and as usual received absolutely no response from them.

On two other occasions I watched as freighters with empty cargo holds had their crews wash the freighters inside and out. Brown, murky water came from their anchor wash for two and a half hours for one ship and three hours and seven minutes for the other and was dumped into our waters.

The last freighter that parked in Captain’s Passage from May 8 to 16 had such a whiny pitch to its generator that it could be heard for four kilometres 24/7. I received no response from the Port of Vancouver  regarding that complaint.

They want pleasure boats to turn off engines, depth and fish finders when orcas are near, but these freighters are allowed to do whatever they want with absolutely no consequences.

There are protests against pipelines and for the orcas. Well, think globally and act locally. These freighters are our pipeline issue. Like the people of Sky Valley Road who feel like they are fighting their battle against clear-cut logging alone, those of us fighting these freighters feel alone.

The shipping industry has decreased by 30 per cent during these difficult times. Now is the time to fight and change this policy. There are 10,000 of us on Salt Spring Island. There should be 10,000 letters on the desks of Transport Minister Marc Garneau, Minister of Environment and Climate Change Jonathan Wilkinson and Minister of Fisheries and Oceans Bernadette Jordan. Wake up, Salt Spring, this is about all of the generations to come.

The Port of Vancouver has pulled the wool over the eyes of Lower Mainland citizens with their feel-good commercials. The dirty secret is that the Gulf Islands have been turned into an industrial dumping ground with not a second thought to our environment, our quiet way of life or our tourism industry.

Community shocked by murder-suicide

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Salt Spring community members are still struggling to cope with the deaths of John and Jennifer Quesnel in a murder-suicide committed by John last Monday.

While the Vancouver Island Integrated Major Crime Unit and the B.C. Coroners Service have not finished their investigations, police say there are no suspects, no expected charges and no community threat. Witness testimony from someone who was there combined with the evidence on scene has led no doubt as to what occurred, according to RCMP media spokesperson Cpl. Chris Manseau.

The event has shocked the community where both John and Jennifer grew up. John Quesnel was a colourful and at times larger-than-life character who was well known for his Salt Spring Metal Recycling business and his frequents bouts with the Islands Trust over zoning violations. Jennifer had a lifelong passion for horses and was a well-loved member of the Arabian horse riding community.

RCMP have now confirmed that Jennifer, 41 and John, 48, were killed by a firearm. When police and paramedics arrived at around 5 p.m. John was dead. Jennifer died while being transferred to hospital. Police say the boys were not home when the incident took place. They are safe and being cared for by family members.

A statement from the family explains that Jennifer had recently left her marriage after 18 years. 

She had been staying with her brother Glenn Hamilton in Sidney for the two weeks prior to her death and had returned to the property that day to pick up some belongings and care for her horse.

“There was a pre-arrangement that John would not be on the property during that timeframe. Jennifer had also spoken to the RCMP about an escort to the property but later felt he wouldn’t be a threat. Additionally, she was re-assured by the fact that all his firearms had previously been confiscated and his vehicle was not in the driveway,” the family said. 

No one, including his closest friends and family members, realized John’s state of mind. Although some stated he was often verbally abusive and controlling, they did not imagine he could be a lethal threat.

“Jennifer was taken from us and her three boys during a time of renewed hope and possibilities and was excited for what her future held,” her family members stated. “She was a gentle and loving mother, friend, daughter and sister to everyone who knew her. She was everything that was good about people.” 

A trust fund has been set up to help care for the Quesnels’ sons, John Jr., 17, Dan, almost 16, and Jake, 12. People can contribute to the GoFund Me campaign called Jennifer Quesnel – Children’s Fundraiser or contact theonlysteph@gmail.com to donate through e-transfer.

As of Monday the GoFundMe campaign had exceeded the $75,000 goal and had topped $107,000.

“Jennifer’s family and loved ones would like to publicly extend their heartfelt thanks to the incredible community of Salt Spring Island and beyond for their outpouring of love and support. We are truly so humbled by your generosity,” a message on the campaign website states.

See the June 10 issue of the Driftwood for more on this story.

Much-loved community leader dies

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Matt Steffich, the well-known owner of Steffich Fine Art and a vibrant community leader, died suddenly from a heart attack on June 3 at the age of 61.
Matt was found collapsed in the gallery by a regular gallery patron at approximately 12:30 p.m. Emergency services personnel were unable to revive him.
Christine said Matt was proud of being raised in East Vancouver, and became interested in First Nations art because of a family connection to Reg Ashwell, who founded Pegasus Gallery on Salt Spring Island. Matt moved to Salt Spring Island and in 1992 opened his own gallery with a native art focus in Grace Point Square called Thunderbird Gallery with then-partner Jennifer Rosling. He and Christine changed the gallery name to Steffich Fine Art in 2007.
Matt was known for his love of music and guitar playing, especially slide guitar; for his local radio show called The Speakeasy co-hosted with John Bateman when CFSI was operating; his role as emcee of a number of community events; for his participation on the Salt Spring Chamber of Commerce board, including terms as president and vice president; and as an enthusiastic proponent of the Ganges harbourwalk project.
Matt is survived by his wife Christine, sons Dakota Steffich, 13, and Austin Steffich-Rosling, 26, his four siblings and many family members and friends.
See Wednesday’s issue of the Driftwood for more about the life of Matt Steffich and his contributions to Salt Spring.

CLEMENTS, John Leslie (Jack)

John Leslie (Jack) Clements
October 7, 1923 ~ June 2, 2020

Jack passed peacefully, surrounded by his family.

Husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, uncle, soldier, sheet metal worker, psychiatric nurse, art therapist, therapeutic touch practitioner, stained glass artist … Jack was all of these and so much more.  Although his last two years were difficult after the passing of Yvette – his wife for 71 years – he met them with humour, gratitude and courage.  He loved nothing more than meeting new people and that is reflected in the number of friends he made around the world. His hugs and smile could brighten up the darkest day!

Profound gratitude to Sandi and her amazing team at Heritage Place who cared for Jack with such love.

A Celebration of Life will take place when circumstances permit. Until then, enjoy a slice of pie in his honour and love and laugh as much as you can!